Age: 5 Years

The 5 FIND Elements of Serve and Return

The early years of a child’s life are important because their brains are growing. The experiences that a child has affects how their brain grows. One of the most important things adults do to support healthy brain development is called Serve and Return. Children serve when they do something, say something, or look at something. Adults return the serve when they respond. It’s these everyday moments that promote healthy brain development in young children.

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Sharing a Child's Focus

This happens when you notice a child’s serve, and get interested in what they are doing, seeing, or feeling.

Noticing serves helps you identify a child’s interests and needs, and gives you an opportunity to respond.

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Supporting and Encouraging

You give support when you comfort a child, provide them with something they want or need, or help them do or understand something.

You encourage a child when you praise them, play with them, or acknowledge them.

Returning serves with support and encouragement strengthens your relationship with a child.

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Naming

Naming happens when you provide a word or label for what a child is doing, seeing, or feeling.

Returning serves with naming helps build language. Naming feelings helps children learn about their emotions and how to cope with them.

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Back and Forth

Once you return a serve with support, encouragement, or naming, interactions often go Back and Forth. Waiting for a child to respond gives them time to come up with their own ideas and responses.

These longer interactions build thinking, language, and social skills.

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Endings and Beginnings

This happens when a child shows you they are all done with one activity, they serve by showing interest in something new, and you join them in the new activity.

Child led Endings and Beginnings encourages a child to explore their environment, and can help transitions go more smoothly.

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Filming Interactions to Nurture Development (FIND) is a strengths-based, video coaching program for parents and other caregivers of young children.

To participate in FIND offered at PCC, contact: Celina Nance 512-684-1749

Domestic Violence is a Crime

Domestic Violence is a Crime

It may begin gradually as verbal or emotional attacks. It can start when your pregnant or when your baby is born. However, domestic violence is not okay.

What is Abuse?

  • Emotional Abuse
    • Constant criticism and jealousy
    • Making you feel bad and blaming you for when you are not at fault
    • Being lied to, punished, or threatened
  • Isolation
    • Preventing you from seeing friends or family
    • Your partner is very jealous of anyone else in your life
  • Threats
    • Your partner threatens your family, friends, pets, or property
  • Economic Abuse
    • Your control over money or income is threatened
  • Physical Abuse
    • Pushing, slapping, kicking, biting, restraining, use of weapon against your, or having things thrown at you
  • Sexual Abuse
    • You are forced to have sex or your partner refuses to practice birth control
  • Property Destruction
    • Smashing, destroying, stealing, or damaging things you value

Truths About Abuse

  • No one deserves abuse
  • Domestic violence is not mutual – it is not just an argument or a lover’s quarrel.
  • People who stay in abusive relationships do not enjoy violence – leaving is not simple, some people are too frightened while others hope the abuse will stop.
  • Abuse can be found in all parts of the community – people from any social group can be abused.
  • There is no excuse for violent behavior – violence is a choice, the abusive person is responsible for their actions.

If You are a Victim or a Survivor of Abuse

You are not to blame for another person’s violence.

You have the right to a safe, healthy relationship.

You deserve to be treated with respect.

Make a safety plan in case you need to leave quickly.

Establish contacts with friends/family to go to in an emergency.

Consider getting a protective order to protect yourself.

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Abuse and Pregnancy

For 1 of every 3 women who are abused, the first abuse happens during pregnancy

An unhealthy relationship is not just physically hurtful. All abuses are dangerous to your well being and the well being of your unborn child.

Being abused before or during your pregnancy increases your risk of miscarriage, anemia, infections, bleeding during the first two trimesters, and having a low birth weight baby.

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Reach Out for Support

  • You are not alone. Support and help are here.
  • Call the Safe Place 24 hour help line: 512-267-7233
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-700-7233
  • Austin Police Department Victim Services: 512-974-5037
  • Texas Department of Family and Protective Services: 1-800-252-5400
  • United Way Capitol Area: 211.
  • Dial 911 in an emergency.

This brochure is based on information provided by Safe Place.

Choosing the Right Seat for Your Child

REAR FACING CAR SEAT

  • Children under the age of 2 years should ride in an infant-only carrier-type rear facing car seat in the back seat.
  • Convertible car seats can also be used, but the rear facing setting should be used for children under 2 years old and under the maximum requirement for rear facing.

Illustration of a rear facing car seat

FORWARD FACING CAR SEAT

  • Forward-facing car seats are for children between 2-4 years old and 40-80 pounds.
  • Forward-facing car seats should only be used in the back seat.

Illustration of a forward facing car seat

BOOSTER SEAT

  • Booster seats should be used with children after age 4 and over 40 pounds.
  • Booster seats must be used with the adult lap and shoulder belt.
  • Booster seats should only be used in the back seat.

Illustration of a booster seat

SEAT BELT

  • Seat belts can be used after age 10 and your child is 4’9” tall.
  • Lap belts should be positioned low over the hips and tops of thighs.
  • Shoulder belt should cross the center of the shoulder and chest.

Illustration of a seat belt in a car

ALL children younger than age 13 should ride properly restrained in the back seat.

NEVER place a car seat in the front passenger seat.

For additional information and assistance contact EMS Car Safety Checks and Infant Safety Education at 512-972-7233 or www.atcems.org.

For other car seat check option call Dell Children’s Medical Center 512-324-8687 or Safe Riders 1-800-252-8255.

Never leave a child alone in a car!