Helping Your Baby Sleep

Being tired can be a big part of life with a new baby.

But parents can help babies learn good sleeping habits right away.

FOR THE FIRST TWO MONTHS:

1. Make up your own get-ready-to sleep steps.

  • For example:
    • Read a short book
    • Sing a lullaby
    • Give good-night
    • Kisses and turn out the lights

2. Put your baby in the crib while still awake but sleepy.

  • After you put your baby down, it may take 20 minutes for them to fall asleep.
  • If they cry, check diaper, burps, and rock or cuddle
  • Lastly, put them back down to finish falling asleep.

3. Do the same get-ready-to-sleep steps every night in the same order.

4. Make middle of the night feedings brief and boring.

5. Keep daytime naps to no more than 3 hours per nap.

6. Try to make your babies go-to-bed time the same as the last feeding of the day.

FOR 2-4 MONTHS:

1. Keep up the same get-ready-to-sleep steps, but add a new step:

  • Brush your baby’s gums/teeth with water and a washcloth.

2. Have your baby sleep in a separate room. Or:

  • Use a screen or furniture so the baby cannot see you from the crib.
  • Do not use a blanket over the side side of the crib as it could cause suffocation.

3. Delay middle of the night feedings.

  • Try only one or two feedings a night.
  • Do not lay your baby down with a bottle.

4. If your baby wake more often:

  • Try to quiet them with some gentle cuddling in the dark room.
  • Check diapers.
  • Burp your baby.
  • Check that your baby is not too hot or cold.

5. If your baby still will not settle down:

  • Feed your baby with less milk than what you gave during the day.

It takes patience, but you will get to sleep soon!

Adapted From:
Instructions for Pediatric Patients, WB Saunders Co. 1999, Barton Schmitt, MD

Let’s Eat!

General Guidelines and feeding tips for baby’s first year!

BIRTH TO 6 MONTHS

Man bottle-feeding baby

What baby does?

  • Sucks and swallows breastmilk and formula
  • Pushes tongue out of the mouth when they swallow

New Foods:

  • Feed only breastmilk or formula with iron

What to do?

  • Be patient
  • Feed when your baby is hungry
  • Learn your baby’s hunger and fullness cues

AROUND 6 MONTHS

Baby being fed with a spoon

What baby does?

  • Sits with help
  • Supports and controls head
  • Can grasp an object and put it in mouth
  • Opens mouth for a spoon
  • Can keep most of the food in their mouth
  • Removes food from a spoon with a sucking action
  • Turns head away when full

New foods:

  • Try jarred or home-prepared single-ingredient foods like:
    • Pureed fruits, vegetables, or meats
    • Infant cereal

What to do?

  • Continue breastfeeding or giving formula with iron
  • Feed with a spoon
  • Start with a smooth and thin texture
  • Never put cereal in the baby’s bottle
  • Follow baby’s lead. Let your baby show you when they are full.
  • Wait two to three days between feeding new foods.

7 – 9 MONTHS

Baby drinking out of a cup

What baby does?

  • Sits without help
  • Moves food from front to back of the mouth
  • Begins side to side movement of the tongue
  • Begins to grasp objects with the whole hand and transfer from one hand to another
  • Starts to mash food with gums
  • Brings head towards the spoon
  • Drinks from cup with lots of spilling

New foods:

  • Plain, cooked, home-prepared foods, strained or mashed with a fork.
    • Try fruits, vegetables, and meats.
  • Yogurt, cottage cheese
  • Very small pieces of hard cheese.

What to do?

  • Continue to breastfeed or give formula with iron.
  • As baby gets better at eating, mix food to a thicker texture
  • Offer breastmilk or formula in small amounts from a cup

10 – 12 MONTHS

Baby in highchair eating broccoli

What baby does?

  • Picks up food with thumb and forefinger
  • Rotary or grinding chewing begins
  • Drinks from cup with less spilling

New foods:

  • Small pieces of bread, cheese, noodles, crackers, soft tortilla
  • Small pieces of cooked, tender, lean meat
  • Soft cooked pieces of beans and vegetables
  • Pieces of raw, soft, ripe fruits

What to do?

  • Continue to breastfeed or give formula with iron
  • Offer finger foods
  • Watch baby closely while eating
  • Keep baby seated in a chair, high chair, or carrier

KEEP IN MIND

  • Be patient. It may take more than one time for your baby to like a new taste or texture.
  • Begin with small amounts of foods. Offer seconds if needed.
  • Do not force your baby to eat or finish all of their food. Turning their head, closing their mouth, shaking their head, or leaning back are signs your baby is full.
  • Continue to breastfeed or give formula after solid foods are introduced.
    Be sure your baby is drinking enough breastmilk or formula.
  • If your baby is ready for table food, spoon out the amount they will eat before adding salt, sugar, fats, or other seasonings to the food for your family.
  • Set a good example. Older babies will want to eat what you eat.
  • If you have a family history of allergies, there may be foods you want to avoid giving your baby. Check with your doctor or clinic. Signs of an allergic reaction include skin rash, vomiting, diarrhea, irritability, or wheezing.

Baby crying next to image of a honey dripper

BE AWARE

  • NEVER give honey to your baby. Honey may have botulism, a germ that can be deadly for your baby.
  • Do NOT put your baby to bed with a bottle.
  • These foods may be choking hazards in babies and children younger than 4 years old:
    • Whole hotdogs
    • Whole grapes
    • Popcorn
    • Chunks of peanut butter
    • Peanuts and other nuts
    • Raw hard vegetables
    • Round, hard or sticky candies

Signs your Baby May Be Hungry:

Signs of hunger in young babies

  • Getting hungry:
    • Stretching
    • Physical Movement
    • Hand to Mouth
  • Feed Me:
    • Crying
    • Agitated
    • Turning Red

Choking Hazards for Children Under One Year:

Choking Food Hazards for Children Under One Year

  • Thickly spread nut butters
  • Whole nuts and seeds
  • Popcorn
  • Raw carrots and other hard raw veggies
  • Whole grapes
  • Tortilla and other hard chips

What Your Baby Sees

Baby Blues

Where to seek help?

Postpartum Depression Hotline: 1-800-773-6667 (24-hour hotline)

Any Baby Can – Postpartum Support and Groups: 512-334-4444 (Parent Helpline); 512-454-3743 (Main phone)

Postpartum Support International: 1-800-944-4773

2-1-1 Texas from your cell phone: 1-877-541-7905

Postpartum Support International: www.postpartum.net

DSHS Pregnancy, Parenting and Depression Resource List

The National Women’s Health Information Center: www.womenshealth.gov

Parents Anonymous: www.parentsanonymous.org

Depression During and After Pregnancy

The Online PPD Support Group: www.ppdsupportpage.com

Whooping Cough and Flu

Protect your baby from Whooping Cough and Flu!

Whooping cough is a bad bacterial illness easily passed from person to person. Flu is a virus that is also easily passed from person to person.

Whooping cough and flu are life threatening to babies. What can you do about it?

Surround your baby with protection.

  • Tell the people who have contact with your baby to get the whooping cough shot (Tdap) and the flu shot!
  • They can get the shots from their doctor.
  • Or they can call the “BIG SHOTS” program at 512-972-5520.
  • Get the Flu shot every year during flu season.
  • The Tdap shot is for people 11 years old and older.